I then inherited a lot of money (and I already own my home and rent it out which I know she hated as she wasn't interested in seeing the renovation photos) and I told her my news. Pisces. 1) He acts shy when he is around you. I told her he didn't think it wise to take "sides" and wanted to stay out of it. Be careful, because she carries a grudge like no other, so get on her good side or you will definitely regret it later. They are usually gentle and slow to anger, but can turn vicious in a moment if need be. They seem hyper-vigilant, forcing themselves to "go through the motions," but nothing really impresses them. But talk to damn much. Libra loves to cooperate and is incredibly diplomatic, so she'll be right there with you throughout the entire apology making sure you both are on the same page. He'll keep a lid on his feelings. Why, its hard to believe its the same person! I was shocked at how "fake nice" my Libra college professor (who was also my advisor for a college club) would talk SH*T about other professors, administrators and anyone who seemed to have a "higher position" of authority than her. I am still trying to find that perfect middle. I strongly dislike negativity and conflict. I have to say you have gone out of your way to taint this sign more so than they deserve and more so than your other dark side write ups. "Whoa is me"..libra. Munay, I am a Libra and I have to disagree on every aspects lol for me personally I do good until Im messed over as soon as you mess over me its over with. I really don't think there should ever be an article that claims EVERY libra does such and such.. that's like saying every American likes pizza. Then he stop talking to me. However, sometimes the Libra man tends to hide his emotions, and it can be difficult to read their energy. And then there are the decans of each zodiac sign, in which will defer from each other but still be somewhat the same of each other. His wife and kids. Often, Libran guests arrive late if at all, and invitations from Libra specify the time you should leave so they can be their irritable selves again. By Samantha Maffucci Written on Dec 16, 2021. This content is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional. You can't be weak around these majestic women. His best friends were always the most quiet guys he could find to hang around with. seems the guys dont stay very long wonder why . Candice NY from NYC on December 02, 2018: Libras are great as long as you keep it superficial. A Libra woman may decide that it is acceptable to simply ignore or dismiss topics that she doesn't want to speak about. All libras say that hate being embarassed; so much that they are willing to betray someone or talk shit about someone else in public to distract everyone's attention from their flaws or faults. I, remember all the bad stuff anyone has ever done to me BUT i have a patience of a God. I have been in 3 relationships in my life and the the 3 of them are Libra. I completely agree with this. Which is usually just a LIE. It's a bad place to be when someone makes you feel you don't know what you're talking about, are stupid, or just plain crazy. Shes ugly on the inside and on the outside and she's vain for no reason. The only reason I can think of is that, it is because we hide ourself so well in public that we carry all the annoyances and irritation back home, to a place we do not need to hide and while at home, the slightest irritation can wreck havoc. Im happy i read this because hubpages looks like an awesome website. A Libra woman may choose to no longer focus on aspects of her life that she once valued. Especially those of you who have been in relationships with 2 or 3 Libras in a row, are you crazy or just looking to make yourself miserable. Think i am not fake person. Turned to a puppy, sorry from heaven to hell. Because the same person who, held your hands, hugged you and said everything will be ok we're going to get through this together, will be the same person who tells your weak, thats why these things happen. She only wants information to use against them. Very nice guy. Who knows. Think of Judge Judy (born October 21) and the pain she's seen and absorbed over 25 years as a judge in family court. Let him ask a few questions that were way out of line before lost my temper & told him to plz back the hell off. Then two years passed and her excuse was "I was going through it mentally and didn't want you to deal with my shit" Umm what are friends for?? Met my wife in early 2000. It's extremely unfair to call Sylvia Browne a fake psychic. And they hate confrontation, bull, they are the cause of it. Sag herewe like the truth pure and simple and wont accept anything less. All that's left (like the bad traits mentioned above which seemed to me like traits of a dangerous personality disorder) is formed depending on countless variables (the way one was raised, experiences etc..) we do have a dark side, but we don't all react the same way. In turn, this will give her a chance to build a new life on a strong foundation. This is very interesting; my mother is Libra and her vacillation between kind and cruel has kept me confused and emotionally bleeding for my entire almost 58 years on this earth. As time progresses, a Libra woman may become more ready to respond to people in a sharp or cruel manner. I tried several times to con myself that perhaps my gut instinct was off, I'd since found out she was a Libra, I'd never met one until then (that's a whole 36 years without knowing a Libra, I wasn't missing anything). They want tranquil homes decorated artistically. I made decision to stop communicating with her. Why loyalty. im sure its not just the libra in her, she is a narcissist. I wouldn't trade my beautuful Libra baddie for nothing. she abused me because she didnt know any better. They are the cause to my misery. But their dark side is an endless abyss of self-serving, manipulative, victim-based behavior. But the point is we are shit at emotions, because our minds are a major dumping ground, where is so much stuff that the stuff we say and the stuff we believe often go in different directions. So don't take the (general) layout of the Libra to heart, it's only one sliver of what variations there can be about the Libra. He can be flirty but is seldom emotional. If they do they will learn to regret it. They need someone to talk to about their problems, in order to help them navigate life. Because it's almost impossible to feel sorry for them. He also wanted an apology for every thing I said so we broke up after he exploded with me and I told him off in no uncertain terms. Seriously wtf! I learned the term for what Libras do to create this unnecessary drama it's called TRIANGULATION! Depends on the day of the month you were born. I know that sounds brash, and probably just as bad as how Librans have been painted on here, but there is a very specific driving force as to why I acted the way that I did, and it's because of how how she treated my children. He will yell that all he wants is some peace. They said that the raven people were feared in the tribes because they always new what was going on without hearing a word, they always knew. Like it is mentioned above we like to flake out on our family members and that is something I can't deny, we are just looking for guidance we can't find and actually we know all the stuff we want to know already, we just can't find it in all the shit that we bathe in in our minds. A lot of Librans a prone to having gallstones, kidney and dental problems. I. Yes, alot of these opinions are true but thats why they call them opinions, everyone has one. I make plans throughtout the day BUT due to my overveight condition, which caused not having any energy and whole body and soul atching feeling even when i walk made me lazy. i am in my 40's and i have went total no contact with her on several times. Are Libras logical or emotional? Well long story longer I could not invited my best friend and family to my own wedding I'm hurt didn't phase her. Here's why. When he was on his drinking binge, everything and anything was fair game. Hello, I'm one of Libras you guys are hating on. And I know there's a dark side but I'm not a dark person. They're short-tempered and needy and are prone to turning themselves into a martyr if they know it'll help their cause. I think it's smart to learn astrology to choose the best time to give birth to a child and choose their planetary influences to prevent many obstacles :P. This is true. This is, of course, not ideal because the people around them don't know when a Libra's feelings are hurt. This person adores the idea of being in a couple and sharing their deepest feelings with the person they love. Libra. Sat there listening in while this self righteous weirdo was really out of line! Curse you Libra for messing men's life everywhere you go. My partner and her don't have a friendship. We were staying in a very beautiful hotel and this was Christmas Eve. ( baring in mind her parents live 5 minutes from her home and she's close to them, she alledges to have 2 childhood friends who live near her too.. she didn't turn to them.) Mr. Libra 2 was so sly and subtle that it took me several months to figure out he was an abusive controoling person. And booooyyyyyy. Replytovengefulauthor on January 09, 2017: As someone that has done a lot of astrology reading I can admit I know some of these traits can be very true of a libra. They seem cool, and often emotionless but often there's a storm of feelings inside. But do love a tennis match with a Libra! But when the phone rings, Libra will answer it calmly and sweetly. So while the posted article was interesting, it basically told one aspect of a particularly warped type of Libra. It's hard to be happy for someone you don't genuinely click with. I'm going to be very honest, I was pretty ruthless with my ex wife, especially in the latter part of our marriage. Another one I knew years later did the same; hard to believe, but true! )are NOT COMPATIBLE? (Aquarius) With (Gemini) moon. other than my mom, i love libras!!! And while it would be nice to have this kind of mind-reader in our lives, we should always make sure we understand our own emotions before we get others involved. I can agree with some of the second parts of statements: e.g. We libras are very difficult people for families to get along with. Mother, father, uncle whatever..that's ridiculous. o que associo a cada signo aries: personalidade touro: inflexvel gmeos: ingenuidade cncer: terapia (precisam mt) leo: ignorncia virgem: sociopatia libra: inconvenincia escorpio: intimidade sagitrio: hide sadness behind beautiful smile aquario: metidos peixes: sonsos But charming when she wants info from us. I am pretty sure there are killers of all signsand actually if you've only found 5 twisted people in Libra, that in fact disproves your point. Why make an indecisive person a leader? I can't stand Libras never again. The realest women in the zodiac I love their tell it like it is ways. Everyday, physical pain reminds me of how manipulative, hypocritical, cynical and deceptive she can be. If they are only pretending to be brilliant, there's no way they will capture my attention beyond the first sentence, as they are bland and phoney, and I simply will not respect them. I hate quarrels. I'm just dealing with a toxic one. (4) I am skilled at photography. I am a few years late in reading your amazing and very poignant article regarding The Dark Side of Saccharine Libra, but I am soo glad I found it. The secret to any Sun in Libra is they hate to be alone. They are also intuitive about the future and have an uncanny ability to read people for clues about what they may want or need. I dont like drama. 2023byTango Publishing Corporation All Rights Reserved. Like the diet sodas they love, negative Librans are artificially sweet. Dark-side Librans ignore or hush up reports of pain or unpleasantness and fool themselves that things they don't acknowledge didn't happen. We were close like family and talked a lot on the phone and only during work hours(my choice after we started dating in 2000). Vindictive and nosy. TRY ME!!! They know how to break your heart and lie to you constantly in order to always look good and avoid confrontations. Often, the question "Why?" But now I discovered that I gave everything to the wrong people. I am taurus with a highly aries dominance,and i just want to puke thinking about libras utterly shameful fakeness. You know what makes you tick and your negative and positive characteristics. Great lays. What ever happened in her head destroyed her. A lifelong libra friend I'm strongly considering giving up. Peace. My strict advice as a Leo, NEVER EVER GO FOR A SCORPIO no matter if ur sign is a good match and if u do get along in the startU will just end up ruined or even dead. So to say my ability to maintain connection is fucked is putting it mildly. 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